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A Belly Dance Update


The fundraiser for Nepal I performed at was a success and we managed to raise almost £600! On top of that I received so much lovely feedback about my dancing and it surprised me. One woman said she found my gaze so alluring & intimidating that she had to turn away and watch my performance in the mirror above the bar, she continued “Not in a bad way! It was just that your dancing was so hypnotic and your eyes were so intense, it was like whoa! and I didn’t know where to look!” (I actually know only one person in my life who managed to look me in the eyes, hold their gaze and look right into the depths of my soul.) One man said “I have been to many Middle Eastern countries and I have never seen a Belly Dancer move like that! Wow! Incredible & special!” The organizer of the fundraiser mentioned “There are two sides to you, one side is shy & playful but the other side when you dance, you become this incredibly powerful woman!”

I was so moved by peoples love and support it made me realize I have a talent here, I mean I knew before but I guess I didn’t really understand my potential and yet I keep getting feedback from all kinds of people telling me how special my dancing is, how it makes them feel good just by watching, women want to learn from me and men seem hypnotized on the spot. This performance for the fundraiser was an important one for two reasons, firstly I wanted to contribute towards helping Nepal and secondly it has helped me take away the blindfold and I am now able to see what I am capable of.

 

Magic Socks, Sexy Pants & Belly Dance


After weeks of editing and juggling other commitments I finally managed to finish this video and have it go live today. The plan for this video was for it to be free form and organic, I wanted to bring forth my personality and give a demo of a recent drum solo I had been practicing. It has been a while since I last uploaded a dance video and it felt right to create one that is stripped from the usual studio, stage & post production glamour.
This is just me with friends in a relaxed environment and being happy. I hope you all like it!

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Croatia: Lokrum Island

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Lokrum Island is about a 15 minute boat ride from Dubrovnik and the boats that take you there are constantly running throughout the day until 6pm. There is no fee to be on this island but there is a small cost for the journey on the boat and you must keep your ticket for when you decide to go back to Dubrovnik. Jon and I opted to stay on Lokrum all day, we left out apartment after a slight snoozy lie-in at 11am and walked to the small port to catch a boat. We took a packed lunch of fruit, water and home made sandwiches from a lovely ‘Sandvich stall’ and leisurely strolled around Lokrum until sunset.

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Croatia: 4 Days in Dubrovnik

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We spent ten days in Croatia, traveling up the Dalmatian coast in August of 2014. Jon & I wanted this holiday to be of a slower pace than Morocco, it was to be relaxed in nature and gave us the opportunity to explore the Dalmatian coast on our own without a tour guide; to help us learn how to travel around a country without the comfort of a tour company or package deal. Morocco in March 2014 was our first holiday together and so going on an adventure tour had the perfect balance of feeling safe with a certified guide yet having that back packer freedom to visit many locations around the country. This second holiday being European, reminded me a little of Cyprus and was rather easy going so backpacking on our own in Croatia was not a scary concept.
Our first location was Dubrovnik for 4 days. As well as this we also went on a day trip to visit Montenegro and another day trip to a nearby island off the coast of Dubrovnik called Lokrum and I will write about these places separately.
Dubrovnik being the first stop,was probably our favourite place to visit although we were glad we also spent time in about 8 other locations so that we can say we did actually visit the country.
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Welsh mini break: Swansea

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Soon after our couple of days in Cornwall we ventured to the South of Wales and spent four days in and around Swansea. We stayed with his delightful Aunt & Uncle who are also keen adventurers themselves, telling us stories of their motor bike adventure around Europe and their most recent adventure on a huge sail boat around the Atlantic Ocean on their own! Jon’s Aunt & Uncle have been to so many places around the world and it was just so inspiring hearing their tales. It was just so lovely to be out all day and know we could come back to an environment that was very cozy and welcoming.
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Morocco: Marrakech

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Marrakech or Marrakesh is interesting to say the least. I wanted to show you this image above first because as you can see the roads are polished and modern, getting off the mini van you feel like you have stepped onto a street in Los Angeles, forgetting you are in a beautiful African country. This is probably a great way to end the adventure tour, after so much trekking and being surrounded by the hubbub of rural markets along dusty roads or simple villages in the remoteness of the mountains. I think ending the trip in a contemporary place allows the traveler to reflect back on the awesome holiday as a whole and it also makes you really appreciate certain comforts that us westerners take for granted. For example, all through this tour our group found it difficult to have to endure cold showers almost every day due to there being not enough hot water and yes we did jokingly moan about it but looking at the bigger picture you realize that not always having hot water to bathe in may be a reality to some Moroccans and other parts of the world, in fact it didn’t bother me so much largely because I came from a poor family where my mum couldn’t always afford hot water, I learned to wash with cold water in a sink and with a sponge.

So although Morocco is developing fast and it is really up and coming, it’s still a real eye opener and culture shock to not have hot running water readily available in certain places we traveled to and it’s something us Westerners probably take for granted too. Or perhaps there is no central heating in the hotel you are staying at and you need ten thick blankets to keep warm due to your delicate western body being unable handle the cold nights because it is so used to radiators. It’s times like that, that you look back on and smile, it makes you appreciate a culture so different from your own and as a human being you learn a hell of a lot about yourself and how you adapt to not getting everything you want, and how others thrive in societies you may consider beautifully strange.

You don’t see the culture shock when you first arrive in Marrakech, it’s very modern, and has all the mod cons. It isn’t until you visit the main square you think to yourself “Ah Ha! This is the Morocco I know!” Marrakesh is like two worlds encased in one. As you walk to the main square you are surrounded by sophisticated shops and cafes and sleek pavements & roads and then suddenly you step into the noise and eccentricities of the main market. This was our last two & a half days in Morocco before we said our farewells to the group of 16 people who had become a little family to us. These last couple of days involved a short tour around the souk and mainly pottering about, eating lots of food at the food court, bartering for gifts and enjoying the odd street performances.

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Morocco: Essaouira

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Essaouira is up and coming, it is becoming the creative and bohemian hub of Morocco. If you liken Marrakesh to London, then Essaouira is like Bristol or Liverpool. Over the years many ‘foreigners’ have been buying & renovating beautiful town houses here which is great for the economy but not so great for locals since outsiders are getting rid of that crumbling charm of the exterior buildings in order to modernize and suit their own needs. Moroccans strongly believe in community & in being humble. The whole reason as to why the exterior buildings look as though they are about to collapse is to show all men & women are equal, nobody knows who is wealthy or who is struggling until you step inside their home. Moroccans; unlike us in the West, do not like to gloat about who has the most expensive car and who can afford a deluxe designer kitchen because doing that encourages segregation and a weak sense community. Another practice that I love about Moroccans is that local bakeries and store owners always put the poor first, giving them the bigger and fresher pieces of bread because they know full well that whereas the wealthier person can afford bread every day, the individual who is struggling may have to make their loaf of bread last a week. There is a real sense of community here in Morocco in that they do try to look after those who are less fortunate. In the West our community enjoys pointing the finger and offering little or no support, needless to say I prefer the Moroccan community to the West.

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Morocco: Aroumd

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Soon after Ait Benhaddou we headed to Aroumd, a village in the High Atlas mountains. Aroumd (also called Armed or Aremd) is the largest village of the Mizane Valley, an extraordinary looking place, built on a huge moraine spur above the valley at 1840m. We were to stay over night with a lovely local family who welcomed us all with open arms. You will find if you ever visit Morocco, the people there are exceedingly accommodating & friendly, always wanting to enjoy a good conversation with you over tea or encourage you to dance & sing by a roaring fire.

After numerous hours driving through the valley & up the mountain pass, the dusty white hairpin bends are becoming so tight that the hard-worked mini van, unable to make them in one, negotiates a series of death-defying turns, leaving us at times driving so close to the very edge of a precipice, with only a handbrake between us and a 1000-foot drop and a breathtaking view down the valley. Our driver is the Bees Knees! To the south, a dizzy view of interlocking spurs, and to the north, a spread of horizontal terraces and rooftops. Here is the village of Aremd, 8000 feet high, overlooked by jagged ridges and wedged in the cragged mountains. The silence of the mountains is both eerie and magical.

Our mini van couldn’t take us to where we were to stay so we trekked for about 45 minutes up & around parts of the mountain side, taking in the incredible views as the sun was slowly setting and enjoyed our brisk walk. I mentioned in the previous blog post that at this point of the tour my body was getting tired and now it was showing signs of being a bit poorly. If like me your immune system isn’t great, I’d suggest taking multi-vitamins or Berocca and maybe probiotics too. My body creates a lot of nervous energy, my nervous system is usually on full power but it never knows what to do with the stress and adrenaline so I get fatigued and poorly quite fast on the positive side to that I have reasonably fast metabolism which helps maintain my slim figure. Although another favourite place during our time in Morocco, I was getting weak and craved some quiet time with herbal tea, PJ’S and a good book. I actually did get that whilst in Aroumd which was a welcome relief.

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Draw yourself Picking an Apple from a Tree Interpretation

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This is my interpretation of Sophie’s Tree Drawing:

Looking at a tree as a symbol of life, one should ask If the tree is balanced, i.e. it gives an impression of how balance/unbalanced an individual’s life is.

At first glance we notice that the big apple is practically in the centre of Sophie’s tree and is the only apple present. This implies either a core problem in Sophie’s life or something that is truly important to her that she is trying to attain?
The ‘scar’ or ‘knot’ on the trunk of the tree indicates a traumatic event that happened to Sophie around the age of 15, something that left emotional hurt during her mid-teens. The hand that is reaching for the apple is excessively large in comparison to the other hand, this further emphasizes her want and need to successfully grab the apple, however one of the fingers of this hand is not drawn attached to the arm, this could imply she realizes at the moment there are obstacles in her way that are slowing down her progress.

Within the tree there are ‘squiggles’ that represent leaves; there are 6 squiggles. 6 in numerology is considered to be feminine and extrovert. There is an innate desire within the 6 to bring harmony, peace, justice and truth to all experiences in life. There is a perfected sense of balance with the 6 vibration. 6 thrives on beauty and needs to be comfortable in all areas of their lives – emotionally, spiritually and physically.

Looking at Sophie’s feet in the picture we notice they are ‘edging’ off the paper. This implies there is something Sophie is partially involved with but not being fully committed. It is her way of saying ‘I am being present, yet remaining on the outside.’

Words in drawing: apart from what I told her to write she also wrote “Sophie reaches up to pick the big red juicy apple” So when words are added to a drawing this needs special attention as the individual may not feel like the drawing clearly conveys the point of the message. Words are a definition or a statement, thus reducing the chance for the drawing to be misinterpreted. It is asks the question as to whether Sophie has trust issues with verbal and non verbal communication in her life. Alongside the words plus the big red apple this could also simply mean, as an artist she has big dreams to perhaps one day live & work in New York or even temporarily visit ‘The Big Apple” as one of her life ambitions for her bucket list. This is clearly a very strong desire whatever the ‘Big Apple’ means to Sophie.

The lack of roots or ground for the tree & Sophie to stand on meaning the tree trunk edges off the paper suggests perhaps Sophie grew up in an environment as a child that perhaps didn’t lay solid foundations to nurture her full potential, I feel that Sophie may perhaps have struggled with little or no emotional support from one or both parents or care giver, either that or it was simply a turbulent childhood/family life and a number of factors could cause this such as financial issues, psychological stress, being in a big family or parents arguing. Whatever the cause, it is implied in the picture that Sophie didn’t quite get the solid grounding or foundations she needed, every child needs these rooted deep into the earth in order to encourage them & help them blossom. The fact that Sophie mentions she was happy wearing a skirt might imply also she has had to appear ‘masculine’ and put on a brave face for most of her life, wearing a skirt shows deep down sometimes all she wants is to show her softer, feminine side without getting hurt.

Over all Sophie is shown as a high achiever and a very positive and proactive person regardless of past and/or present issues. She draws herself smiling and happily reaching for her dreams. This young woman will go far because she won’t stop reaching for the big juice apple, even if it means extending the length of her arm and making her hand bigger to get it. She is a force to be reckoned with, highly ambitious but playful with it at the same time.

Disclaimer: I am not a qualified Arts Therapist as of yet, this is merely just for fun and for me to practice deepening my knowledge for when I do my Masters. I have an Arts degree and an Art Therapy Foundation Diploma alongside a number of mental health & psychology based training & certificates. I am currently training & learning about Dance & Movement Therapy (this also includes the movement of Yoga). If anyone is interested in me interpreting their apple tree drawing, send me a picture of your drawing to Katie(at)sunflowerteeth.com

Here is a link to other participants drawings (currently not interpreted).