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A Beautiful Read: Kinfolk

Katie Ness reading Kinfolk, lifestyle, art, nature, culture, design, love, a life worth living
I discovered Kinfolk through Bleubird Vintage. I have been searching for a magazine to call my own for a while now, Jon is subscribed to ‘National Geographic’ which is an excellent read but I wanted something more my style, something earthy, something simple yet full of sustenance & warmth and I believe Kinfolk has all these qualities and much more. It is beautifully presented with welcoming prose & breathtaking photography. The poetic words in each article roll off the page like a waterfall and you are enveloped in a world full of down to earth, creative individuals who value nature, organic food, the outdoors, simple pleasures like reading, the arts and gatherings. The magazine itself feels like a large paper back book and it’s pages have a matt,uncoated card like texture to them and it feels really satisfying to hold (unlike the usual flimsy paper quality of traditional magazines). Kinfolk are printed in Canada yet they are all about community & culture, they collects ideas from a growing international community of artists, writers, designers, photographers, cooks and others who are interested in creating small gatherings and finding new things to make and do, they even have a photographer & writer on the Kinfolk team, both are based in the South West, UK.

Each issue is like an exhibition filled with lush photography, lyrical essays, recipes, interviews, profiles, personal stories and practical tips along with a keen attention to design and details. I bought myself 2 issues to enjoy, the first one is all about weekend retreats, rest, idle day dreaming that is good for the soul & calming activities away from modern technology. The second one is about Japanese art & culture including beautiful Japanese sayings, recipes, the art of Japanese Gardening & Ikebana (Japanese flower arranging.) I thought even though this magazine is primarily for me I do think Jon would enjoy flipping through Kinfolk too; as an artist & photographer himself, I am sure he will savour the overall design & imagery and find it inspiring.
Kinfolk also have a beautiful website, short films & a stunning recipe book so if you haven’t already picked up a copy, I wholeheartedly recommend it. This magazine will be a treasure in my mini library collection for many years to come.

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organic food, small gatherings, down to earth reading

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city guides, urban living, bohemian lifestyle

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Kinfolk You can buy Kinfolk on Amazon.co.uk, here is the Japanese issue if you fancy treating yourself.

Other magazines I read on occassion are:
Geeked: This is both an online & printed arts & culture magazine, it’s compact and can easily fit in your side bag, it’s full of funky illustrations & designs and it’s articles has an urban feminist slant towards art, culture and gender. It also includes short comics, tasty vegan/vegetarian & organic recipes. This fire cracker of a magazine may be compact but it has a big voice and encourages it’s readers to be a part of a positive change towards others & the planet, engaging it’s readers to want to contribute to making the world a better place via cake, sarcastic comics & protesting against injustice towards gender, race, environmental issues via thought provoking articles and much more.

Tribe: An online Arts & media magazine. They are committed to collaboration, innovation and the promotion of creativity in all its forms. Tribe is a facilitator of new collaborations and creative ideas and is read in 142 countries and by around 250,000 people each month. It is jammed packed full of interviews with contemporary up and coming young artists, musicians and dancers, installation art and photographers. This is the go to magazine if you want to discover new projects, artists, exhibitions and art work you might like. They also support individual artists and enjoy collaborations, contact them to volunteer or even request to showcase your art through them?

Lionheart: A printed magazine and Blog that taps into my girly side. I am not very girly (although I am feminine) yet sometimes I like to take the plunge into my girly side sometimes and this magazine has a sweetness factor, like a cupcake it oozes pretty illustrations,Photography, cute stories, fashion tips and quaint interviews. This is where I discovered Bleubird Vintage because she was interviewed for Lionheart and thus through Bleubird I ended up discovering Kinfolk magazine (love it when that happens).Lionheart also includes cute dessert recipes & promotes art, craft, makers and locations ultra feminine readers may want to visit. It has a delicate warmth to it like a pretty lioness taking a bubble bath and drinking Chamomile tea from a vintage teacup yet it also encourages young women to roar with independence & vitality.

50 Facts About Me

I was inspired by this adorable lady and her cute lifestyle blog Pourable Sunshine. Cara and I are good friends outside of Blogging and although we keep in touch and she has rang me out of the blue on some occasions we have never actually met. We tried to meet up in London when I was invited to dance at Mind,Body,Spirit but I was so exhausted and overwhelmed by London (to be perfectly honest London terrifies me) and I was poorly, I couldn’t meet her in the end. I am sure one day we will meet, patience is a virtue. We have a lot in common based on her “50 Facts About Me” for example, sunflowers are also my favourite flower and I also sing (badly) to Disney songs. I am not afraid of birds (although my mum is) I have a silly fear of moths and other flying insects, they really freak me out. I am appalling at maths also and I used to suck my thumb until I was 13.

So on that Note here is my 50 Facts About Me.

1: One of my favourite snacks are green olives.
2: I very rarely go into a deep sleep, I am a light sleeper, constantly in REM.
3: Because of this my dreams are out of this world, I can can control my dreams and I am a lucid dreamer.
4: When I was about 7 I convinced my younger sister that pouring orange on her cereal was yummier than milk.
5: I’m 35 and I still wear my retainer at night, this is why my teeth are still straight.
6: Although a bit more down to earth now, I used to walk out the house wearing wigs and mash of brightly coloured clothes.
7: I have a fascination with the symbolism and stories of mermaids.
8: I dislike nosey people and my intuition can pick up whether you genuinely care or just out to get facts to then pass it around.
9: I bite my lips when I am nervous & when I am in deep thought.
10:I am prone to panic attacks and claustrophobia when surrounded by large groups of people or drunks.
11:Autumn is my favourite season, I love the woody smell and the colours.
12:I enjoy smelling Henna & old books.
13:I am addicted to collecting & reading books because they remind me of my Nanna Monica.
14:My favourite colour is Turquoise. Although I really like Burgundy at the moment.
15:I believe in Karma, reincarnation, spirits and deities but that does not make me a hippie.
16:I read the Tarot & I can interpret dreams.
17:I am of Romany Gypsy ancestry, my Granddad was the last Romany in my family, everyone else is mixed.
18:That being said I am part Irish, Scottish, English and Romany.
19:I love Herbal Tea but I don’t understand why people dunk their biscuits in tea? Ewww Soggy biscuit!
20:I am atrocious at maths, my brain malfunctions at the simplest of sums.
21:But I am a genius at Art, English Literature, Psychology and Philosophy so who cares about maths?
22:One of my biggest regrets is that I never pursued dance as a career because when I was younger I was told I was too fat to be a dancer.
23:I was brought up in Blackpool, it is shit.
24:I have lived in Cyprus & China, Bali and Australia as well as Preston (uk) Plymouth (uk), Liverpool (UK) and now London (UK).
25:I am well travelled, thanks to my mum who took me to Bulgaria as my first destination at the age of 6, I am now a travel bug.
26:My mum owns a house in Bulgaria and will be living there soon. I get to visit all the time (obviously)
27:My mum now also owns a Gypsy cart.
28:I love Salad Cream
29:I love puppies (& puppy breath),my idea of heaven is this.
30:My hair is actually naturally curly and black although I have to dye it now, getting old with the greys.
31:Elephants are my favourite animal, Beluga whales come a close second.
32:Materialistic people bore me, no I don’t want to listen to you talk about your latest shopping experience.
33:Unconformists,Humanitarians and creative activists inspire me.
34: I’m a qualified yoga teacher and holistic coach
35:I have never broken a bone (touch wood)
36:I used to write in a diary from the age of 15 until I was 20. I should start up again.
37:I write poetry and have kept an art Journal since I was 19.
38:I now keep this lifestyle Blog and I love it!
39:I wear hardly any make-up even when I’m going ‘out out’. I only wear eye-liner.
40: I am learning to rollerskate and do the splits.
41:I can’t drive and I don’t really want to, car= expensive responsibility not freedom.
42:I dislike unwanted advice. Did I ask for help, no? Then bugger off.
43:I don’t really cry, I analyse my emotions or paint them away. Can’t stand overly emotional girls.
44:I have an Aunt in L.A. Her daughter (my cousin) dated Robbie Williams.
45:My American Aunt also owns Pickwicks Pub in America of which Bruno Mars used to perform there, he is good friends with the family.
46:I don’t want to get married in a church and it will be more like a blessing than a massive religious ‘game show’ *ahem* ceremony.
47:I don’t like wearing jeans or shoes. Love wearing long skirts & dresses.
48:I am very awkward & shy but I have an eccentric alter-ego.
49:I like getting to know individual people but dislike social gatherings and dribbling “chit chat”.
50:If I wasn’t what I am now, I’d want to be a Sex Therapist or Botanist.

So there you have it. 50 little facts about me you might not have known.

Shimmy Drills: The Health Benefits of Belly Dance

So when I am not practising routines and embellishing costumes for up & coming events I still continue to practise my shimmy drills and do a basic Belly Dance workout almost every day. I did not just get this tummy from no where. I do a gentle Yoga warm up & stretch before I do my Belly Dance workout.
This video gives you an idea of what I do, it isn’t meant to be perfect it is literally to keep muscle memory around my abdomen.

The Health Benefits of Belly Dance:
*Improved circulation *Improved suppleness *Increased joint flexibility *Deeper breathing, better oxygenation of blood *Relaxing and calming, reduces stress *Possible aerobic exercise workout – burns fat, raises metabolism and improves resting heart rate *Tones all major muscle groups – legs, thighs, calves, gluteals, abdominals, upper arms, back *Reduces cellulite *Eases PMT symptoms *Prepares major muscle groups for pregnant women to assist the birthing process

The basis of the core moves is always the centre – just below the navel – or in esoteric arts the place known as the hara, second chakra or simply ‘the centre’. Yoga and Pilates are two popular exercises that like bellydancing, focus their energies on the ‘centre’ and the breath. Which is why when I run for 30 minutes on the treadmill I never break out into a sweat and I never struggle to breathe.

The suppleness and fluidity of movement necessary for bellydancing can help relax and lubricate joints and can be helpful in cases of arthritis, particularly in the wrists and shoulders. The dance, practised gently in the beginning stages, usually produces beneficial results for muscle and joint conditioning. Participants who had suffered uncomfortable back pain or shoulder stiffness for years, have reported improvement after several weeks of bellydancing. It is becoming a popular form of rehabilitation exercise, now advised by doctors and therapists. Of course, if anyone has chronic back or knee problems, they are advised to see a doctor first before embarking on a bellydance course.

 

The bellydance is linked with birthing mainly due to its focus on the belly and hips. As a pre-natal exercise, bellydancing in its gentler forms is strengthening for the pelvic muscles and relaxing for the mother-to-be. Many Arab women say shimmies should be avoided during pregnancy, but the figure eights and rolling circular movements are good preparation for childbirth. This makes sense, as the rolling movements not only feel natural, but assist with the normal pelvic relaxing process to prepare for birth and at the same time, helps firm the pelvic muscles for labour and post-pregnancy recovery. Indeed, the dance can be a comfortable exercise that not only gets the mother ready for the birth process, but connects her to the unborn child through a series of movements which focus her attention on her belly.
The Belly dance also help a woman’s body for after pregnancy as it encourages muscle memory and you’ll find a lot of belly dancers have pretty toned tummies not long after the birth.
after taking up bellydancing reported much easier and relaxed births with the ‘bellydance baby’. The body also gets into shape quickly, the pelvic floor is toned, incontinence is avoided due to strong pelvic floor muscles and the general condition of health is better with regular dancing sessions. Baby often likes swaying in mother’s arms when she’s doing figure eights and dancing to soft music! Bellydancing and birthing have been inextricably linked for thousands of years – since the days of ancient female deity worship, to tribal fertility ceremony, to the harem, to birth customs in today’s Arabian villages.

For more information visit these links here and here

Belly Dance helps improve pelvic muscles: On a personal note I had my yearly check up that women have to have. The nurse made me laugh to calm my nerves (it was my first time) and the speculum shot across the room! The nurses and my mother were shocked and in hysterics, the head nurse said “My God Girl! Don’t you have strong pelvic muscles, you’re gonna have no problems having a baby one day!” to which I laughed and proudly replied “I am a belly dancer”.

 

Belly Dance also encourages self esteem which I discovered when I was 15. Throughout my childhood I have been bullied by my peers for reasons unknown to me still other than I just didn’t quite fit in and I looked different and I was shy. Believe it or not I still am reserved and will only voice my opinion if it something I feel passionately about or I notice something unjust happening (when this happens, watch out, I can sting!). So I found Belly Dance on a family trip to Turkey and there I met 2 very glamorous Belly Dancers, one had huge boobs and enjoyed doing the shoulder shimmy the most and the other had incredible hips and her speciality was obviously the hip shimmy. Belly Dance brought about a confidence in me I never knew existed and being bullied at school didn’t bother me any more because I had a beautiful secret that over time helped me develop my femininity, grace, sensuality and love for myself and my body regardless of what others would say. Belly Dance is at the core of my love for the Middle East, my Romani family history, Dance rituals, the Kama Sutra, Hindu Philosophy, Tantra and the sensuality of life.

and as Rachel Brice’s tattoo says: “Practice becomes firmly grounded when continued
for a long time, without interruption and with reverent devotion.”

 

Alice Mary Lynch: Vintage Doll Maker

”I love imagination and humour, people who have their feet on the ground whilst dreaming, the poetry in everyday life. I like a certain vulnerability whilst standing strong, 1930’s cabaret, dark shiny and mad, and silent films. I like the circus, the colours when the lights go down, the trapeze artist making an entrance. I like it behind the scenes, there are stories there too, and toys and childhood and history on our doorstep.” -Alice Mary Lynch

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Growing up in Somerset with artist parents, Kate and James Lynch, Alice scoured fleamarkets with a magpie’s instinct for curiosities to inhabit her fairytale world.
She trained in Fashion Design at Kingston University, London, then worked as a designer in Paris for John Galliano, Christian Dior and Sonia Rykiel. She honed her craft in their studios full of stitching, beading and embellishment and thrived in the theatre of their catwalk shows.

After nine years in Paris, Alice recently moved back to Somerset, where she now lives with her Japanese husband and their two small children.

I adore her animal dolls so much. They are a mixture of Vintage 1920’s Cabaret meets Alice in Wonder Land meets Native American animal symbolism and totems! There is a lot for the eyes to take in with all the detailed buttons, ruffled fabric, beads, crystals, patterns, layers, glass and talismen. These whimsical creatures have an air of magic about them and with every stitch and sew Alice breathes life and personality into each individual doll. Even though these Animal dolls have a very vintage, British feel to them (I can imagine them having a tea party in a garden somewhere) to me they are more reminiscent of Native American Indian dolls that are hand crafted to encase an animal spirit guide (or power animal) inside to protect the child as it grows into an adult (These animal spirits stay with a person for life) it is the same with dream catchers and tribal hand crafted Jewellery, each piece has a specific meaning to the Apache as they use protective stones or writing to ward off evil.

I feel like these are little warrior dolls Alice has created to watch over the person the doll is given to. They really are such lovely little beings! I WANT ONE!

If you would like to see more of Alice’s work pop over to her lovely website: Alice Mary Lynch
Or her facebook page: Alice Mary lynch Dollmaker

© 2013 Alice Mary Lynch. all rights reserved

Art Therapy Books

I am massively into Art Therapy and anything Therapy or Therapeutically related hence why I am training in Massage Therapy at the moment. In the distant future I do intend on doing a masters in Art Therapy. I decided not to go straight into a masters after my degree because I want to gain some excellent life experience in Health & Social care, recreational support work as well as Therapy related training and work experience. I am even happy to wait until I am settled down and married and had kids and when they are grown up enough I think then would be the perfect time for me to do my masters part time. But who knows what the future brings? Even if I never get the title of “Art Therapist” I may still enjoy a career in the arts that utilises creativity in a therapeutic way. I enjoy promoting Health & Well-being in general which is why my interests branch out into Massage, Nutrition, Yoga, Meditation and Dance Therapy.
Here are some books I have read and currently reading, if you are interested in this field I really recommend them!

art therapy source book
The Art Therapy Source Book was the first Art Therapy Book I bought (age 19) when my friend Despina Chrysanthou mentioned she wanted to be a Drama-therapist at the time and told me there was such a thing as Art Therapy. This book is a great introduction into the art therapy world, It is by an American Author and is really easy to read without any of that pretentious jargon specialists adopt.
Here is the link to buy this book: Art therapy Source book

drawing on difference, mair rees
Drawing on Difference is a great book that delves into Art Therapy with people who have Autism & Learning Difficulties. Mair Rees is well known in the Art Therapy world so it would be good to research her and the work she does. She is an Absolutely brilliant lady. Her area of expertise seems to be with children who have special needs, specifically Autism so if this is the field you want to work in then I suggest reading more of her material including articles she has published. I bought this as another beginners Art Therapy book as ‘special needs’ is a popular subject that psychologists and therapist research and it feels good to know I have some basic knowledge in this line of work but it is not where I want to specialise in.
To buy this book: Drawing on Difference

the hand book of art therapy, Tesse Dailey
The Handbook of Art Therapy was a birthday present from Jon a couple of years back. Another excellent introductory book about Art Therapy as a whole and even looks into different types of Art studios and therapy settings, how to train as an art therapist, client case studies and much more. These two authors again are ones to watch. This book is also great for practitioners to refer back to.
A good introductory book to purchase: The Handbook of Art Therapy

the secret world of drawing
The Secret World of Drawing is a small book with only 147 pages and much of that is taken up by bibliographies at the end of each chapter to encourage more reading. The book is set out more like a dissertation that explores drawing through the eyes of Jungian theory. Also includes coloured images which is quite rare. Most art therapy books print completely in Black & white (which seems odd to me, isn’t colour important?) This book is a nice short read during a train journey or for lazy afternoon reading.
To Purchase this book: The Secret world of Drawings

art heals, shaun mcniff
Art Heals is a wonderful book by Shaun Mcniff. This book is completely different to any I have read. Easy to read and welcoming yet still informative in regards to the Art Therapy side to it, but Mcniff adds a gentler & spiritual aspect to his writings as he researches into Archetypes, dreams, mandala art, soul searching, shamanism and spirit guides. This book offers a more holistic approach to Art Therapy.
To buy this book: Art Heals

reflections of body image in art therapy
Reflections of Body Image in Art Therapy is centred around art therapy for women with emotional and psychological disorders in regards to their bodies and how they perceive themselves. This is one of the fields I wish to specialise in. I wish to eventually work with young adults (preferably women) from many different cultures & ethnicities including refugees and victims of trauma. This book offers a look into therapeutic workshops on craft and stitching or making 3d objects via textiles, creating art that explores identity & the physical body, society, culture and self discovery.
Here is the link to buy this book if you wish: Reflections of Body Image

art therapy and drama therapy, masks of the soul
This one is an oldie but a goodie. Art Therapy students are encouraged to read many books on general art therapy and the field they perhaps wish to specialise in before they go onto to do their masters. This was on the reading list for Goldsmith’s Art Psycho-Therapy Masters course and it looked interesting. I love the idea of fusing art with drama and researching into identity, the concept of masks and alter-egos.
Here is the link to buy this book: Art Therapy & Drama-Therapy

art therapy in asia
One of it’s kind. The first ever Art Therapy book that showcases how popular Art Therapy is becoming in Asia including India, Napal, China and Thailand. This is right up my street as I mentioned before that this is the area of expertise I wish to specialise in.
Treat yourself, buy this book: Art Therapy in Asia

performance poetry, spoken word poetry, poetry therapy
Sarah Kay who is a performance poet in New York made me think about other forms of creative therapy and since I also write short stories and poems I wondered if there is a book about Poetry Therapy. This is what I found. I have not got round to reading this one just yet however I am excited to get started! As an artist I work more with the mixed media realm and so I think I’d enjoy becoming an ‘ARTS THERAPIST’ or Creative therapist that encourages clients to look beyond drawing and painting, perhaps they’d prefer to express their feelings via dance or poetry instead?
To buy this Book: Poetry Therapy

You can find nearly all of these on Jessica Kingsley Publishing’s website or Amazon.

Plus these are 4 books I really want and are on my Amazon Wish list (if anyone wants to buy them as a birthday present? My birthday is in October)

expressive arts therapy, activity hand book

This book offers tips & advice on activities and workshops to work on with a client. This would be an excellent resource book for me to find arts & craft ideas to facilitate in workshops.
To purchase this book: Expressive Arts Therapy

using art therapy in diverse populations
This book is newly published (August 2013) and again centres on art therapy in cultures and ethnicity.
To buy this book: Using Art therapy in Diverse Populations

kid's sacred places, safe place, room installation art
This takes Art Therapy to a whole new level. Using the room as a therapeutic tool so that children and even adults can create their own safe place.
Here is the link to this book: Kid’s Sacred Places

dance therapy
I have a number of books on Art Therapy, a book that covers Drama Therapy and another on Poetry Therapy but I also love dance and movement and from personal experience Belly Dance has acted like a meditation or yoga that helped calm my soul during times of sorrow, surely I should have a book about Dance Therapy too? I love the idea of qualifying as a creative arts therapist that utilises art, poetry and dance into my workshops? Utter Bliss!
if you want to buy this book here is the link: Dance Therapy

If you are interested in a career in Art Therapy here is a website and a blog also.

The British association of Art Therapy They also publish a Journal twice yearly called “Inscape” It is rather expensive though.

Art Therapy Blog: Inspiring others to Create

Mind, Body, Spirit Fest & Dirty Ragas

 

This dance is to honour the Goddess Lakshmi, I invoke her to come alive through me and I hope people can feel that energy. I own a Lakshmi Statue at home, she was a gift from my mum.
So this is how I imagined her dancing on the Lotus Flower during the Churning of the Sea of Milk.

Lakshmi is my Zodiac Sign’s Goddess (I am a Libra, born October 11th) and she is Celebrated in October during Divali “The Festival of Lights” in India. She is known to have long, jet black wavy hair and wears a red Saree. she is the Goddess of Wealth, love, Beauty and Abundance. Sound familiar? A few later goddesses from other cultures like Aphrodite and Venus borrowed her traits and made them their own. She was born of the sea (or Ocean of Milk) and stands upon a Lotus flower and her consort is Vishnu ‘The Creator’. Lakshmi’s four hands signify her power to grant the four type of Purusharthas (ends of human life), Dharma (righteousness), Artha (wealth), Kama (bodily pleasures), Moksha (beatitude).

This performance is darker and earthy in comparison to previous routines. I was seeking out the real me, where magic and mysticism boil in my primal blood.

 

 

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Lancashire & Yorkshire

This place is where I was born and brought up. Parts of Lancashire and Yorkshire have some of the most beautiful and wild terrains in England. Living away from home and even watching
‘Game of Thrones’ and listening to the Northern accent makes me proud to be Northern.
And even some of the buildings in Blackpool town centre are seeped in history and architecture of the Roaring Twenties (1920), the golden age of Jazz, flapper girls and when my Romany
ancestors settled here as street performers, Gypsy dancers and fortune tellers.

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